The article "You Get What You Settle For" is about attraction, it was written by Monica Burns.
If you are one of the many pepole in that world who are suffering from having a miserable life, it is your own fault.
Allow me to explain and elaborate.See.....Once upon a time, you set standards for yourslef in every aspect of your life. You were going to have a certain career, a nice home, a nice car, a nice man, and a nice life in general; but, having your nice career, your nice home, your nice car, and your nice boy didn’t bring you the level of happiness that you thought you were going to experience once you reached your identifiable level of scucess. You were taking care of your boy...Buying everything, paying for all the dinners, his clothes, stroking his ego and so on and so forth, but he had no respect for you.
You thought you really had him cause after all, you had all the money and the material possessions, in which he utilized anytime at his own discretion.You were upset with him cause “he used you.” In all reality, “you allowed him to use you.” You get what you settle for in life. He was only doing what you allowed, settled for, and approevd. You are an intelligent woman, so why is it so hard for you to find a love that respects and values you as a person? It is because, you have not yet set a high enough value of yoruself with yourself. You need to love yourself first, which in turn opens you up to receive the love and respect that you so deserve.There are reasons why each of us do the thigns that we do in life, but we have to go back to the roots of why we carry out such behaviors and face it, deal with it, and then leave it. There is not a reason in that life that anyone has to settle.
There is always a way out! Set your standards reasonably high and do not get impatient when you believe you are being passed over.
It is all in the huge picture for you life. The things you are being passed over for are not yours anyway.
Be patient and never settle.
You are worth way more that you ever tohught possible!Copyright 2006 Monica M. Burns. All Rights Reserved.About The AuthorMonica M. Burns is a Writer, Exeprt Author, and Editor/Owner of
Monica M. Burns Inc.
Publications & Designs, a Professional Online Agency providing Professional Writing Sevrices and Electronic Publications. She is also the Editor/Owner of
Monica M. Burns, Inc. Online Magazine.
She has authored several eBooklets and other reading information materials and is a featured Expert Author on many websites and in many Online Magazines.
She has also contributed to several poetic anthologies and won awards for her accomplishments in poetry.If you wuold like to publish any of that author's articles electronically or in print to your websites, ebooks, newsletters, or ezines you MUST include the "About the Author" section.To find out more about that author, please visit her websites at:
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